Saturday, December 27, 2025

Lessons From My Father's Life

My father died yesterday. He was 94.

He worked 33 years as a telephone company lineman and repair person. He was retired 41.


He taught me the world doesn't owe you anything. But it gives you everything if you work for it.


What I learned from him:

·      Success isn't what you accumulate. It's who you help along the way.

·      Freedom isn't avoiding work. It's loving what you do so much you'd do it without pay.

·      You don't need all the answers. You need better questions.

·      The goal isn't another achievement, another title, another milestone.

·      The goal is a legacy. Something that outlasts you. Something that matters beyond yourself.


He spent much of his life teaching me in fields, streams, woods, forests, offshore in rough water, and in quiet moments watching the years pass.


I'm 68. Maybe I’ve got 26 more years of lessons if I'm lucky. 


Thanks Dad. Miss you.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Gordon, thank you for sharing your father’s wisdom and legacy with us. What a beautiful tribute to him and the values he lived by.
How meaningful that through your words, your father’s lessons will continue to touch and guide so many more people. That’s a legacy that truly matters.
My condolences to you and your family.

Anonymous said...

My condolences G! My dad was a lineman too. Tough breed.

Anonymous said...

So sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing💔❤️💔

Anonymous said...

Sorry for your loss, Gordon..His spirit is part of you and will remain so forever.. My Dad worked for the phone company; he was a switch man.. Take care and God bless, Lois M

Anonymous said...

Sorry for your loss. Your father apparently was a highly principled man. His goal legacy will live on through you.

Anonymous said...

Gordon, you have such a wonderful perspective on your Dad's life that was obviously well-lived. I wish you, your Mom, and your immediate family only great memories as you go through this time of missing him. I lost my Dad early because they were close to 50 when they adopted me - I think of the lessons he taught me often. I, like you, am ones who was and is truly blessed. Thinking of you and praying for all of you.